What Is Christmas ~ all about?

 

 

 

Believers are the product of Christmas. We came from Him, from His bloodline. ~

Merry Christmas to one and all. The idea/concept of a merry Christmas season is something that delights my heart. And so much of Christmas is about this to me. Actually, so much of life is about this to me. Perhaps that’s because I’ve had so many things happen to me designed to steal my happiness and rob my joy. So, I’ve made a study of being merry and of good cheer and I’m striving to invite these two spirits into my thinking and being more and more each day.

Merry is actually a Bible word. Merry appears 28 times in the King James Version of the Bible. Merrily, once and Merryhearted, once. Cheer, ten time (eight of them ‘be of good cheer’). Cheerful, four times. Cheereth, Cheerfully, Cheefulness, each once.

So why is a merry/cheerful spirit or attitude associated with the Christmas season which begins with Advent on the fourth Sunday in November and ends on December 24th? First of all, Christmas means the celebration of the Christ, or of the Christ’s coming. In Roman Catholic Church, and in the Western Rite Orthodox churches, the Old Catholic churches, Eastern Catholic churches, some Lutheran churches, as well as in some Anglican churches the Mass is celebrated. The word Mass itself means ‘sent’, or in the case of Jesus ‘the One Who was sent’. We celebrate The One Who Was Sent in this Christmas season, the One who taught us about freedom of the spirit. That, in Him, we could be free. That in and of itself brings on a feeling of merriment, delight and good cheer. There is a place where we can be free from this world’s strife, rage, and hate and that place is in Jesus.

Wow! That’s what Christmas is all about. The celebration of the coming of the Christ. Jesus Christ. Christ isn’t Jesus’ last name. It’s more accurately stated Jesus the Christ. Christ means the Anointed One but it’s more than a title. It’s who He is, His very being, the Son of God in the flesh. He came to us as a baby in a manger in Bethlehem, entrusted to the care and protection of Joseph and Mary. He suckled at Mary’s breast like every other baby.

During this season, from time-to-time, almost every person thinks of Him as a baby…has that concept in their heads. For many that brings on a warm feeling. Joy. Gentleness. Kindness. Happiness. a Merry heart, and Good Cheer. Many of us want to help someone else, give to the less fortunate, share of our abundance.

Sharing with others makes us feel good. It’s the evidence of our prosperity. Yes, prosperity! Even if we only have a little, if we share some of it that is an act of prosperity. Christian prosperity starts with inner prosperity, the prosperity of the soul. That is something that should bring good cheer to our lives. Of course, the Bible teaches in many places, that it’s God’s will that we should prosper materially as well, that we should have enough, and that God is our source of enough.

Beloved, I pray that in all respects you may prosper and be in good health, just as your soul prospers. ~ 3 John 1:2 [New American Standard Bible, NASB]

And that is my Christmas wish for you all. That you would come to know Him and that you would prosper in all ways and be in good health, as your soul prospers…and that you will enjoy prospering in your soul and be merry, cheerful, and that you would laugh a lot. Merry Christmas.

My two Christmas season novels are ACTS OF MALICE and BLOOD SPEAKS.

Good Thoughts – Good Memories ~ in 2020

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What Are You Thinking On?

My mother had severe juvenile diabetes (type 1) in a time when the disease was a death sentence and insulin was a very new medical treatment. She grew up in the Ukrainian immigrant community where, at that time, there was tremendous fear of injections. My grandparents bravely decided that she should have insulin and she lived. Not only did she live, she married my father, had two children, and had a life. However, she was an exceedingly negative person all of her life. As a child, I didn’t understand her struggle, and I found her constant negativity painful. Despite my mother’s untreated chronic depression, she was a decent and ethical person who tried really hard to live her life and have a family. I understand that now, as an adult and how I think of her has changed a great deal. I now see her in a much more positive light without denying her faults.

My father was pragmatic, unemotional, bookish, and often withdrawn. But he could be very funny and for me that was some relief from the darkness of talking about every thing that was wrong or was about to go wrong.

I took after my dad in a lot of ways. I found refuge in books, and I’d make a joke out of whatever was upsetting and dysfunctional. That was when I was around other people. In private, I was more like my mom, focused excessively on the painful and the negative.

It wasn’t until my mid-forties that I first heard teaching on renewing of the mind and the importance of focusing on the lovely and the good. And by that time, I had  focused on the unlovely, the broken, and the sad so much, that I hardly had any good memories from my childhood, and even from my adult life. They’d all been overshadowed and buried by my rehashing of all the dark and negative moments.

Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, dwell on these things. ~ Philippians 4:8, New American Standard Bible [NASB]

I married a man whose family was even more dysfunctional than mine…if that is even possible. My own immediate family and my extended family had PhDs in negativity. (See, I am still able to make a joke out of the gruesome.)

Well, one day there was great turmoil in my husband’s family. A lot of yelling in the kitchen and people running in and out of the house. So, I went into the living room and started surfing channels on the TV just to block the chaos out. It was a Sunday and I clicked onto this petite blonde lady standing behind a podium. Gloria Copeland. I thought she was preaching, but she is much more a teacher than a preacher. She was no-nonsense positive. Positive that God is a good God, is a healing God, is a loving God. She was intelligent, logical, and didn’t have big hair. That sealed it for me, and by the end of the program, I put my hands on the TV and got saved.

I am aware of true ‘Christian’ positive-thinking that first manifested itself in the 1950s, and that is good. But what I’m talking about is deeper.  It is a real and abiding belief that the power of the Word as written in the Bible is transformative and healing. It is the belief in the supernatural power of God’s living Word. I have to point out here that God’s Word in the Bible is not magical, not hokus-pokus, nor abracadabra. It is the belief that if the living Word gets deep-down within the heart and soul of the believer, it will start to heal those hidden, broken places.

Note: God’s Word in the Holy Bible has structure, context, and order. The Word of God can’t be ripped out of the Bible and thrown around as a quick affirmation for selfish purposes. Any phrase we wish to speak over our situation has to be understood in terms of what came before and after it in the chapter (and even in other chapters and in other books of the Bible). The Bible is a cohesive whole, pointing to and proclaiming Jesus as the Christ, the Anointed One, the Savior.

That said, if you want to get rid of darkness and negativity in your life…if you want to start making some good memories, a good place to start is the Philippians 4 Scripture noted above. Take it apart and on purpose (even if you have to force yourself) start to focus on what is:

  • True
  • Honorable
  • Right
  • Pure
  • Lovely
  • Of Good Repute
  • Having or Striving for Excellence
  • Worthy of Praise