Giving Thanks ~ makes me feel good


So, first of all, I want to thank all my blog readers and my fiction readers. You make me feel good.

If there’s a secret sauce in my life, it would be stop analyzing and just give thanks. That’s it.

Why did that thing happen? Why did those people act that way to me? Why didn’t they appreciate me? Why couldn’t they see what they were doing was so destructive to themselves and others? I could, and I have spent weeks, no months analyzing issues such as these. At the end of that time, I’ve come up with some pretty plausible answers. Were any of them, the right answer? Maybe, maybe not. Hard to know, but they were plausible answers to those questions. Did all that analyzing solve any dilemmas? No, not really.

When I first started trying to find things to intentionally be thankful for, it felt weird, like an exercise. But once I kept at it, thanksgiving started to change things inside me. First of all, I realized the act of giving thanks is energizing. Thanksgiving is powerful.

In my life, the one I thank the most is God. I’ve been doing this long enough now that it’s actually fun to watch God move. I thank Him for what he’s doing in my life.

1 Chronicles 16:34 ~ Oh give thanks to the Lord, for he is good;
    for his steadfast love endures forever! ~ [ESV]

This is going to date me. I think Captain Kangaroo was right. Thank you is a magic word. Most people should use it more often. I should use it more often. I should say the words ‘thank you’ aloud to other people more often. Saying ‘thank you’ makes others feel good. When the people around us feel good, life is a whole lot easier for everybody. When there’s a general feeling of appreciation, there’s a lot less stress.

This thankfulness thing is really pretty simple. it’s so simple it works.

8 thoughts on “Giving Thanks ~ makes me feel good

  1. I grew up on Captain Kangaroo and loved every minute. I can still tell you the names of all the characters on the show. So glad I grew up in the days when children were taught manners and morals. Then my kids got their dose on Mr. Rogers’ show. I loved that too. Yes, please and thank you will never go out of style! 🌸


    1. Karen, We definitely need much more common courtesy in America today. I spent 34 years of my married life in NYC where if you can make it there you can make it anywhere. It’s very rushed and often lacking in manners. Now I live in NE Florida where there’s a veneer of southern graciousness. It’s so much easier and less stressful to live with basic manners in place.

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